Because curiosity consumed her, she wanted to know his past without asking him. And now, she is drowning. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. Maybe he just need to grab her hand, pull her to him and tell her, "Everything will be alright."
Before she starts pushing people away again, save her.
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Thursday, January 28, 2016
Wednesday, February 4, 2015
Goodbye my love
After 3years, friends and people around me still like to ask, "if he comes back, will you consider/get back together with him?"
Although it's been so long, i still get flustered when that question is being thrown to me. Most of the time i will brush the question by changing topic because honestly, i do not have an answer either.
Haven't i move on? Yes i have, i'm moving forward. Just that i'm missing this one more step to get everything over entirely. And i definitely need to find that step.
Also, i know he won't come back.
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JOAN CHIEN
Sunday, March 30, 2014
Will she?
"I don't believe in true love, until i have one." She said
"How would you know if he's your true love if you don't believe?" Her friend asked, feeling perplexed and curious.
"I will know, at that particular moment." She smiled genuinely.
Will she get there?
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JOAN CHIEN
Monday, March 24, 2014
Learn
"But a day came where I woke up and realized I wanted to see them and talk to them not because I longed for them, but because they were people in my life who once meant everything. I say it often, but you cannot punish someone for not wanting you. You can’t shut someone out of your life and hate them because you are not the one that they chose. You can’t scold and ridicule and condemn. You have to accept and move forward and understand. You have to learn."
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JOAN CHIEN
Labels:
Life,
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thoughtcatalog,
Thoughts
Monday, March 3, 2014
分手後不要做朋友
刪掉你手機的訊息 清空你專屬的抽屜
如果可以的話 多想 從來沒認識過你
置身少了你的空景 何時不再觸景傷情
雨滴和淚滴 總是會混在一起
你愛我 你傷我 不算什麼
反正我 絕不說 我多難過
有你的我 沒有你的我 往後日子都得過
你內疚 你難受 別告訴我
免得我 又搞錯 當作承諾
諒解背後的顫抖 誰關心過
我不堅強 分手後不要做朋友
我不善良 不想看你牽她的手
該怎麼走 就怎麼走
不必那麼努力演灑脫輕鬆
就算寂寞 分手也不要做朋友
就算宇宙 早就安排好這結果
你曾經牢牢地 在我生命裡附著
我要如何去假裝 我沒有愛過
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終於不必為你掛心 終於多點愛給自己
好過不好過 都已跟你沒關係
你愛我 你傷我 不算什麼
反正我 絕不說 我多難過
有你的我 沒有你的我 往後日子都得過
我太愛了 分手後做不了朋友
淚流乾了 還洗不掉那些溫柔
不要蹉跎 不要聯絡
就讓我安安靜靜走完以後
我忘不了 我們曾不只是朋友
從今以後 思念再走不到盡頭
你曾經緊緊的 把我擁在你懷中
我要如何去假裝 你沒有愛過
梁文音
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Labels:
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Wednesday, January 29, 2014
After all these while...
"Moving on, it's not easy. It never is. When people move on from their boyfriend/girlfriend, it is because they were never in love, it was just this thing called attraction
Love is painful, love hurts. Being happy in love is not possible. True love is felt by multiple heartbreaks and soul-crushing pain. It is true, you will get stronger. Eventually you do, but not so strong to not feel the pain, strong enough to hide it and bury it deep inside in some part of your soul where you don't have easy access to. It is still there, you just get better at hiding it. Then there is a downfall for hiding it. Hiding it will make you feel stronger, but there will come to a point where there is just so many emotions and memories and hurt and pain filled that it will explode.
Those days are the worst day of being in love. Being in love is just hopeless and disappointing."
I guess, i was really in love and getting better at hiding it.
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Wednesday, April 24, 2013
渴望
"我渴望像孩子一样的生活 ,高兴时可以毫不掩饰地笑 ,悲伤时可以无所顾忌地哭。
我渴望有那么一天,你悄悄的出现在我的面前,紧紧地抱着我对我说,你不会再离开了。
恋爱是经历是必然 白头到老才是我们所渴望的不是吗。
若你回头,一定会看到在原地等你的我,是多么的寂寞。
我的寂寞只在你离开之后才会更加明显、为什么你却连最后一滴眼泪也不愿为我留下。
三叶草,即使付出了,希望了,爱了,也不一定找到幸福。
所谓寂寞不值得惶恐我何必让自己伤痛。
世 道 放 逐 身 不 由 己 , 到 了 最 后 还 故 作 坚 强 的 说:我 可 以 。
一个人漫无目的地走着 、最终、还是回到了原点。
有人在悲,有人在欢,有人在愁,有人在乐。
就是爱到深处才怨他,舍不舍得都断了吧。
不要一直找他 你也许只是想找他说说话 你觉得那很正常不算苛求 记住你的想法不代表他的想法。
我想要的不过是拥有你主动回过头的温柔...
爱过后的最后,不过是学会了欣赏寂寞。
最伤人的话,总出自最温柔的嘴。
渴望一场天荒地老的爱情 一直很努力、忘不掉你给的伤,我拿什么在去爱你
明明说好忘记,却想起时还是会有一丝丝的痛。
伱 給 旳 爱,那 么 幸 福 !那 么 伤。
闭上眼睛看世界,世界什么时候能有色彩。
爱也是一个偶然,就这样不见。
爱情是很多很多,都是一瞬间。
幸福是每个人生命的追求,每个人都渴望幸福,他们认为活得轻松快乐就是幸福。其实幸福就是满足。
有的爱情来自想像,结果不一定如你所想;有的爱情来自渴望,你越想得到越得不到。
每个女孩其实一样, 渴望着爱情的好 ,渴望被拥抱, 却都害怕爱让人受伤。
曾经我渴望爱的撕心裂肺,可如今我被伤的撕心裂肺,才明白爱的越深伤的越深。
我們都在錯愛著和錯過愛,但是我們還是要相信,我們渴望的愛一定存在。"
我渴望有那么一天,你悄悄的出现在我的面前,紧紧地抱着我对我说,你不会再离开了。
恋爱是经历是必然 白头到老才是我们所渴望的不是吗。
若你回头,一定会看到在原地等你的我,是多么的寂寞。
我的寂寞只在你离开之后才会更加明显、为什么你却连最后一滴眼泪也不愿为我留下。
三叶草,即使付出了,希望了,爱了,也不一定找到幸福。
所谓寂寞不值得惶恐我何必让自己伤痛。
世 道 放 逐 身 不 由 己 , 到 了 最 后 还 故 作 坚 强 的 说:我 可 以 。
一个人漫无目的地走着 、最终、还是回到了原点。
有人在悲,有人在欢,有人在愁,有人在乐。
就是爱到深处才怨他,舍不舍得都断了吧。
不要一直找他 你也许只是想找他说说话 你觉得那很正常不算苛求 记住你的想法不代表他的想法。
我想要的不过是拥有你主动回过头的温柔...
爱过后的最后,不过是学会了欣赏寂寞。
最伤人的话,总出自最温柔的嘴。
渴望一场天荒地老的爱情 一直很努力、忘不掉你给的伤,我拿什么在去爱你
明明说好忘记,却想起时还是会有一丝丝的痛。
伱 給 旳 爱,那 么 幸 福 !那 么 伤。
闭上眼睛看世界,世界什么时候能有色彩。
爱也是一个偶然,就这样不见。
爱情是很多很多,都是一瞬间。
幸福是每个人生命的追求,每个人都渴望幸福,他们认为活得轻松快乐就是幸福。其实幸福就是满足。
有的爱情来自想像,结果不一定如你所想;有的爱情来自渴望,你越想得到越得不到。
每个女孩其实一样, 渴望着爱情的好 ,渴望被拥抱, 却都害怕爱让人受伤。
曾经我渴望爱的撕心裂肺,可如今我被伤的撕心裂肺,才明白爱的越深伤的越深。
我們都在錯愛著和錯過愛,但是我們還是要相信,我們渴望的愛一定存在。"
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JOAN CHIEN
Sunday, March 10, 2013
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Milky way
Interesting day I had during this week...
I saw this guy, rather cute at MBS Shoppes! And I kinda stalked him!
And of course I went quite close up to him and snapped a photo of his backview! Keke!
Anyway,
Harry Potter Exhibition.
Was pretty excited about this exhibition since I have watched all the series of HP and amazed by all the magic, wizards...spells. But the exhibition was not quite from what I expected, it wasn't fascinating enough!
This resulted in greater expectation leads to greater disappointment.
Buffet lunch @ Suanthai, Killiney Road.
Ambience of nature
Orhhhhh-chid
Chicken wrapped in pandan leaf
Deep fried squid with garlic
Thai style chicken satay
Tomyum soup with prawns
And can you see that pineapple rice behind? How to eat dishes without rice??! Omnomz
Beef with cashew nut
Chicken with basil leaves and eggplant
Deep fried fish fillet with sweet, sour and spicy sauce
Green curry with tofu
Too full to even move around after lunch!
Awesomedaywithawesomecompanionandishantdescribehowawesomeitwas!
\( ^ , ^ )/
xx
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JOAN CHIEN
Saturday, May 12, 2012
Stay home saturday
Let's back up on feet and keep striding on! (Okay, sounds alil like army)
Brought mom to Soup Restaurant for an early Mother's Day lunch ytd!
Food was great, needless to say and left the place w BIG tummy,
and a little surprise right outside the entrance! \(♥o♥)/
The main lead
Samsui Chicken (too good, dip in the ginger sauce...oooOOoOOo~)
Mom's de-stress ginger soup. (Had a few mouthful - DE-STRESS DE-STRESS!)
Hometown tofu
Olive rice!
And lastly, Bee Cheng Hiang's HEARTSHAPE bakkwa just for Mother's Day!
Oh, I sampled this piece of bakkwa! WAHAHA!
Tasted like....bakkwa! *LMG*
xx
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JOAN CHIEN
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Lego ear stud
HI PPL, finally i get my ass down infront of my laptop and blog!
Been so lazy to blog and only blog when I have pictures or feeling inspirational/having thoughts.
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Well, this is one of the highlights throughout the 2 weeks...
27th April
Maybelline Fashion Show @ Zouk
Free beer yay!
Make-up on the spot
Invited Jinwan to attend this event and it was her virgin trip to a club!
Bestfriend(:
Bitch! Hahaha!
I don't think the girls on the runway are models, they are talents.
Bad karma accumulated on that night by giggling at talents walking on the runway. :x
When this "hot bod" walked the runway, Huilin went "very handsome very hot ahhhhhh"
And obviously most of girls immediately took out their cameras and went snapping or videoing down the moment when those hot bods walked the runway.
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Caution: Don't continue to scroll down when you are feeling hungry!
Food Pictures Now!
Yummy honey chicken with brownsugared watermelon and bopia!
Green curry rice and pomelo salad!
Finally fixed my craving for the roasted duck pizza! Quack!
Family of 4 having a whole chicken cooked by mom!
My mom is an awesome cook!
Need to learn some skills from her, if not i will always be stuck at cooking tasteless instant noodle :x
Chopped up
With onion omelette and of course, chicken rice.
Have been watching mom whenever she cooks since young, and I actually know how to cook certain dishes (like what are the steps and what ingredients to put in), just that I do not have a chance to really cook a meal by myself (other than tasteless instant noodle). And also, I do not know how to bake, oh no...will I be left on the shelves? Since the old saying goes, "In order to capture your man's heart, you need to capture his stomach first."
Booooooooooooooooooooo!
xx
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Monday, April 23, 2012
Surprises
20th April, one of the CClub members turned 20!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HONGNA, ONCE AGAIN!
Planned a surprise for her, and we succeeded!
Happy moments (:
C4 <3
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Some random photos (of food) captured here and there...
Getting in love w this used-to-be-yucky-fruit-juice
GOBI at...Katong.
With my fav cheesecake (dessert of all time!) and tiny macaroons
Wagyu beef @ Cafe Oliv'! Love it!
Finally got to try the Double Down.
Spicy...but the cheese saved it! Bacon is redundant though.
Chong Pang Nasi Lemak!
#1 Ordered all spicy dishes and resulted in having volcano stomach for the whole night!
#2 This is worse than mine! :x Ah-zhar as vege?! Like zzzz!
xx
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JOAN CHIEN
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